Another way to view it is that you have successfully failed because part of your mind believed that a different outcome would not have been safe. Anything is possible for us, in our lives but not everything feels safe. Those times when you failed it was because a part of you was trying to protect you because you had limiting beliefs. These beliefs were probably picked up in early childhood. Truth is that if you didn’t feel so much like failing then you would feel more confident. There is a part of you that does not want you to be successful or confident because it wants to protect you, wants you to play safe, play small.
And what if I am more confident! What will others think?
The truth is you do not know what others will think so you are really only fearing what you think they will think of you! So basically you are only afraid of your own thoughts.
It’s important to become aware of your thinking, it is the power that is running your life, watch your thoughts, even for just 10 minutes and see what is actually going on in your own mind!
Mary Jo x