According to Quantum physics, the way you see things can actually change them.
If you are upset, frightened or have a negative situation, take a moment and reassess it. Look for elements you like or find uplifting and positive this will help change the perspective of the event and help you be easier in mind and body when dealing with it.
When dealing with people focus on positive elements of their personality or their appearance, their voice, their face, their eyes or even their smile. This will create in you a strong positive energy which they may connect easily with.