If you look for negative traits in most life events, people and thoughts then you will constantly battle with yourself. You will never see that letting of this behaviour will allow you move on.
Ask your angels to help you focus on a different point of view.
This will allow you to steer clear of the negativity and within a short while you will no longer look for or see the negativity.
Be strong, call on your angels for their assistance and you will find the strength you need to move on.